I have to try to sleep, but sleep lately has been pretty nonexistant. SIGH.
Anonymous said: How many girls have you had sex with?
Enough to have an idea of what I’m doing. The number doesn’t matter.
you know when you don’t give a number, subconsciously you’re ashamed of it. just sayingOr maybe I want people to respect my privacy and not ask me how many people I’ve slept with. Theres shit that people don’t need to know. See it however you want to though. Just saying.
I just don’t see the big deal, but hey, your privacy is your privacy. I guess not everyone is an open bookI would rather not discuss the number of people that I’ve slept with, especially with people that I don’t know and am not having sex with. Why does it matter how many people I’ve had sex with? If a person that I’m having sex with isn’t going to ask me, then clearly it isn’t important.
guess we’re just two different people. I don’t believe in secrets or any of that. but to each their own my dudeWe are. It isn’t a secret; it’s information that people have no right to know. Doesn’t matter.
Well considering the huge double standard (between the genders) and judgement that usually follows with higher or lower numbers I can see why people don’t like to put it out. It’s cool that some people are open books but stuff like that is an incredibly sensitive area or subject to some.
The thing is, you are not defined by the number of people you choose to sleep with or what you do with those people. Whether that number is 0 or 100. That does not define you. You are allowed to sleep with whomever you want, as long as consent is had by both parties, and that is no ones business but yours.
It’s okay to be open or more closed off about it. It’s not okay to force or push someone out of that comfort zone and be disrespectful about it.Very well said, Nate.